Some of us may believe that life events occur randomly and that we have limited or no control over that which occurs in our lifes. Nothing could be further from the truth! It is easy for us to be led into believing this illusion of non control over our lifes. These feelings are further reinforced when we experience those events that we wished to avoid in the first place.
The main problem stems not from what we think but how we think. Have you ever heard the saying "Be careful what you ask for since you might get it"? This is absolutely true. We do get what we ask for - good or bad. Its not so much what we ask for but how we ask for it. For example, if you don't want something in your life you usually you go through some sort of mental conversation as to the reasons and justification as to why you don't want what you don't want. So naturally your thoughts now become focused on excluding that which you don't want in your live rather than including what you do want.
Be Careful What You Ask For
This presents a problem since the universal Law of Attraction states that we draw toward us and manifest into reality that which we focus our thoughts on most. The more thought you put toward something the more it expands. Those thoughts, good or bad, are pulling or attracting you towards the particular reality you don't want. By attempting to exclude that which you don't want you inadvertently draw it into your reality.
What this implies is that we should be focusing on those thoughts that move or attract us closer to that which we truly want or desire. In other words, focus on what you do want not what you don't want. How then can we know that we are aligning ourselves with correct thoughts? The answer to this is actually quite simple. Any thought that feels good and empowers you will bring you more in line with the vibrational frequency of that which you want and moves you closer to it. Good thoughts will enhance your well begin. Negative thoughts will pull you away from your source energy and make you feel miserable or irritable. You are now out of alignment with your true wants and desires.
If your current thoughts cause feelings of fear, anger, uneasiness or other negative feelings then that should be your warning to change your thoughts. Negative thoughts are causing you to virbrate at a different frequency from that which you truly want and manifesting a reality you don't want. When this happens immediately change your thoughts to that which empowers you or give you a sense of well being. Let your feelings be your guide in terms of which thoughts are positive or negative, empowering or not and give you a sense of well being.
Living in a state of well being is a normal state of existence. Living in a state of fear, anger or negativity is not. Which state of being you wish to live in is your choice since ultimately your reality ends up being the physical manifestation of your thoughts.
To your continued prosperity,
Mike Manjin
Author: Mike Manjin
Author Bio:
Mike Manjin presents advice on self improvement and personal fullfillment. To discover more about powerful success principles please visit www.lifeprosper.com or for more information email him at mmanjin@lifealteringprinciples.com
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