The Lowdown: A Short Guide on Going Down on Your Woman
Performing oral sex is one of the best things you could do for a womanbut only if you do it right. Not sure where to start? Here are a few basic tips:
1. If you're still not used to the taste or smell of a lady, don't start complaining. It's a good idea to shower together, so you can wash her genital area while getting some serious foreplay done.
2. Teasing is key. Although action on her clitoris is the main event, it's more pleasurable for her if you stimulate her inner thighs and vaginal area first. It's good to start kissing her inner thighs, then to move on with a slow lapping motion from her vaginal entrance to the area above her clit. When you quicken your pace, you can insert your tongue in her vagina like you would your penis. This feels great for her, although it's not the crucial moment. Watch her body language in order to determine the right time to stop teasing and start getting down to business.
3. Keep in mind the sensitivity of one's clitoris varies from woman to woman. Some women are too sensitive, feeling intense pain with the slightest touch on their exposed clitoris. Regardless of your woman's level of sensitivity, you have to find a way to stimulate this area (whether it may be directly or indirectly). Your tongue is best suited for this task because of its flexibility and pliability. Whatever you do, make sure that you end up knowing what she likes and what to avoid in the future. If it's your first time with a particular woman, it's best to keep it simple, and then ask her what she wants later on for future reference.
4. Don't make the mistake of stopping prematurely. When her hips are bucking up in the air and she's started gasping, DON'T change what you're doing. Keep at it until she climaxes. Rememberyou only stop when she tells you to, or when you're sure that she's climaxed. Even then, you should still keep going at it, since most women like to cum multiple times.
5. When you're done and your woman is satisfied, it's important to let her know that pleasing her orally gives you pleasure as well. You can say things like 'I love the way you taste' or 'That was great! I've been thinking of tasting you all day!' in order to let her know that you like performing oral sex on her.
Author: Brian McDonald
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